"If you lose someone or something,
you feel a loss,
then after a while,u fill in the hole
in your life
and the hole gradually gets
smaller and smaller and
eventually goes away..
There's a point to the pain.
There's a reason and a direction"
- Marian Keyes , watermelon
I was reading a book by Marian Keyes titled Watermelon..And i came across a short paragraph above. I truly believed those words are true . When i read it, i somehow feel like i was a reading my life. Im still not done reading it though.Im curious on how the story ends.:-)
And oh,i watched a dvd during work earlier on.i know watching movie while working..how great:-)hehe..aniwei,it was a malay love story called Cintaku forever.It wasnt a mind blowing movie but still it was nice to watch.
Ok here's the thing that i don't understand. When two people are madly in love with each other, they spend 24hrs being together. They stick to each other like a superglue. But when out of the blue, the guy for example found out he was contracted with an ill fated disease and is of course dying, he simply stopped seeing her and tries hard to avoid her. What the hell is wrong with him?and why be that stupid?
Yes i know, intentions are meant well for her so that moving on with life after he died will be made easier. Easier said than done huh.
does he know that he's being the most selfish asshole by doing that?
does he know that he's torturing her by avoiding?
Well it doesnt only apply to the movie i have watched.It applies to other movies that has similar storyline and also real life situations.
Think.
Think hard.
Think again.
There's a reason why his life had to be that way. God didnt take his life right away. Instead he replace it with an ill fated illness so that he's still spared with some time to live.
some time to live.
And what is that time for?
to be in grief and cry your hearts till u die?
To torture yourself till death comes to you?
to stop giving yourself chance to love and be loved?
even for that short period of time..?
oh thats bullshit..
He should have spent those time fruitfully with his loved ones.
He shouldn't avoid her, in fact he should love her more
because he might not be able to love her after his death.
you feel a loss,
then after a while,u fill in the hole
in your life
and the hole gradually gets
smaller and smaller and
eventually goes away..
There's a point to the pain.
There's a reason and a direction"
- Marian Keyes , watermelon
I was reading a book by Marian Keyes titled Watermelon..And i came across a short paragraph above. I truly believed those words are true . When i read it, i somehow feel like i was a reading my life. Im still not done reading it though.Im curious on how the story ends.:-)
And oh,i watched a dvd during work earlier on.i know watching movie while working..how great:-)hehe..aniwei,it was a malay love story called Cintaku forever.It wasnt a mind blowing movie but still it was nice to watch.
Ok here's the thing that i don't understand. When two people are madly in love with each other, they spend 24hrs being together. They stick to each other like a superglue. But when out of the blue, the guy for example found out he was contracted with an ill fated disease and is of course dying, he simply stopped seeing her and tries hard to avoid her. What the hell is wrong with him?and why be that stupid?
Yes i know, intentions are meant well for her so that moving on with life after he died will be made easier. Easier said than done huh.
does he know that he's being the most selfish asshole by doing that?
does he know that he's torturing her by avoiding?
Well it doesnt only apply to the movie i have watched.It applies to other movies that has similar storyline and also real life situations.
Think.
Think hard.
Think again.
There's a reason why his life had to be that way. God didnt take his life right away. Instead he replace it with an ill fated illness so that he's still spared with some time to live.
some time to live.
And what is that time for?
to be in grief and cry your hearts till u die?
To torture yourself till death comes to you?
to stop giving yourself chance to love and be loved?
even for that short period of time..?
oh thats bullshit..
He should have spent those time fruitfully with his loved ones.
He shouldn't avoid her, in fact he should love her more
because he might not be able to love her after his death.
He probably would regret it after he died.
Unlike my all time favourite movie, P.S i love you.
Gerry was dying..but holly wasn't.
Gerry didnt run away from Holly.
In fact, he allowed holly to take care of him during his last bits of living days.
She was by his side till he let out his last breathe.
That's how i think we all should live our life.
face it,accept it,n go through it.
even if time is running out.
aniway,for anyone who have yet to catch the movie PS i love you,
it's never to late do so.
it's a movie worth watching.
i know it's kinda outdated.
but who cares?a great movie will always b a great movie even when time changes and years passed.
(***this post was suppose to b post last 2weeks:-)..hehe...***)
Till then,
Raf
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